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Choosing a funeral director - what should I ask?

Peter Achebe · 9/8/2026

Doing this ahead of time so my children never have to. I've asked three for itemised prices and the difference was enormous. What questions did you wish you'd asked?

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Tom Bradshaw · 9/8/2026

Ask what happens if you want to sit with them beforehand, and where they'll be kept. That mattered more to me than cost.

Fiona McAllister · 9/9/2026

Ask for the standardised price list. They should hand it over without hesitation, and hesitation tells you plenty.

Michael Doherty · 9/11/2026

Ask who actually answers the phone at two in the morning.

Susan Wainwright · 9/13/2026

Doing this before you need to is a real gift to your children. Mine were so relieved.
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