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Going back to work after a bereavement

Hannah Pryce · 8/11/2026

Three weeks off, then back at my desk like nothing happened. Everyone was kind for two days and then it was business as usual. If you've been through it, what actually helped that first month?

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Nneka Adeyemi · 8/12/2026

Ask for one quiet task for the first week. I tried to prove I was fine and paid for it for a month.

Fiona McAllister · 8/14/2026

Tell one trusted colleague what you need. Mine would just say "coffee?" when I'd gone pale, no questions.

Joseph Lindgren · 8/19/2026

I booked a short walk into my calendar every day at eleven. Nobody questioned a meeting.

Tom Bradshaw · 8/29/2026

Be careful of the kindness cliff at two weeks. It's not unkindness, people just forget.
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